Any capacity of servant leadership or influence among God’s people should be accompanied by a holy fear, reverence and humility. This is a Body that belongs to Jesus and Jesus counts anything done to His Body as done to Him (Matt 25:40, 45; Acts 9:4–5; 1 Cor 8:12, 12:27).
Jesus wanted us to take this seriously, so He directly instructed His disciples about it in Matthew 18, with parallels in Mark 9 and Luke 9. It opens with the disciples arguing about status in His Kingdom. They were jockeying for position, so this was an apt moment for instruction. Jesus did not soften this.
At that time the disciples came to Jesus and said, ‘Who then is greatest in the kingdom of heaven?’ And He called a child to Himself and set him before them, and said, ‘Truly I say to you, unless you are converted and become like children, you will not enter the kingdom of heaven. Whoever then humbles himself as this child, he is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven.
And whoever receives one such child in My name receives Me; but whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in Me to stumble, it would be better for him to have a heavy millstone hung around his neck, and to be drowned in the depth of the sea.
Woe to the world because of its stumbling blocks! For it is inevitable that stumbling blocks come; but woe to that man through whom the stumbling block comes!
If your hand or your foot causes you to stumble, cut it off and throw it from you; it is better for you to enter life crippled or lame, than to have two hands or two feet and be cast into the eternal fire. If your eye causes you to stumble, pluck it out and throw it from you. It is better for you to enter life with one eye, than to have two eyes and be cast into the fiery hell.
See that you do not despise one of these little ones, for I say to you that their angels in heaven continually see the face of My Father who is in heaven.’
Matthew 18:1–10 NASB 95
A few things are worth calling out right off the bat.
- The disciples assumed the Kingdom would have a hierarchical pecking order, like every other worldly kingdom. They were profoundly mistaken.
- In first-century Jewish and Greco-Roman culture a small child had almost no status, rights or power. Children were dependants, not players. Jesus is not commending childishness or cuteness. He is pointing to lowliness, lack of pretension, and dependence.
- Greatness in His Kingdom is the opposite of the ambition they were displaying.
Jesus calls a child over, stands him in the middle of the group, and tells His disciples that they must turn and become like that child or they will never even enter the Kingdom. The one who humbles himself like that child is the greatest. Whoever receives one such child in His name, He says, receives Him.
How we treat the humble, the unimportant, the little ones who belong to Him is how we treat Jesus Himself. He identifies Himself with people who have no leverage.
Then the tone turns severe. Anyone who causes one of these little ones who believe in Him to sin — σκανδαλίζω (skandalizō), to trip, entice, or lead into falling away — would be better off with a heavy millstone hung round his neck, the kind turned by a donkey rather than by hand, and drowned in the depths of the sea.
The little ones are not only literal children. The child is the illustration; the category is humble believers, those without status, new or weak in faith, easily influenced, vulnerable. Causing them to stumble, whether by pride, bad example, false teaching, exploitation or contempt, is so serious that a gruesome death would be the lighter outcome. This is aimed squarely at those with influence in the Body of Christ, the disciples included.
Still speaking to them, He tells them to deal with the source of that stumbling in themselves with the same severity. Whatever it is in us — ambition, the eye that looks down on the weak, the hand that grasps at status or exploits — is to be treated as an emergency. Better to enter life maimed than to keep the whole body and be thrown into the fire. This is not a call to literal self-mutilation. It is Jesus insisting that tolerating that sin in ourselves, when it could cause one of these little ones to stumble, is worse than losing a limb.
He closes by telling them not to despise one of these little ones, because their angels always behold the face of the Father. God assigns high value and close attention to the very people the ambitious overlook.
The short of it
Anyone who would have influence or servant leadership among Christ’s people must first become small, because the Kingdom has no room for status-seeking. How we treat a humble believer is how we treat Jesus Himself, and causing one of them to stumble is so grave that drowning would be mercy by comparison. That same severity has to be turned on whatever in us — ambition, contempt, our example, our sin — would become that stumbling block, while we refuse to despise those whose angels stand continually before the Father.